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acceptance

From Julie Smith, Office Manager


There are two things that come to mind that have changed my heart and soul working at Cup of Cool Water (O.K. way more that that…but it’s these two I will write about today):

“Thy will….not MY will”, and Acceptance.

The acceptance piece comes from many things; one that comes to mind is my own personal character traits of obsession and control.  I was in a store and saw a motivational bookmark on acceptance and felt inspired to purchase it for my son.  However, as I read through it, I found a typo.  Now, I am the kind of person that drives down Division Street and cringes when I see a misspelled reader board.  I have to fight the urge to call the business and tell them how to correct the error.  My personal flaw…Anyway, this bookmark was flawed and my first reaction was not to purchase it, then I thought, “Oh, I must buy it for my son so he can see that not everything is perfect!” Immediately I realized how controlling that was and thought, “NO!  I must buy it for myself to remind myself that not everything is perfect.”  I did, in fact, buy it for myself and smile whenever I place it in a book to mark my spot.

But what does that have to do with Cup of Cool Water?  Being here has taught me acceptance.  I accept the youth that come through our doors and up our stairs unequivocally knowing that they are exactly where they are supposed to be in their lives at any given time according to God’s plan for us.  I am where I am supposed to be also, which reminds me that it is “Thy will, not my will” even if I don’t like it.

So this bookmark says:

Acceptance

Is the answer to all my

problems  to day.

When I am disturbed,

it is because I find some

person, place, thing or situation…

some  fact of my life

unacceptable to me. I can find no

serenity until I accept that person,

place, thing or situation as being exactly

the way it is supposed to

be at this moment.

Nothing, absolutely nothing,

happens in God’s world by mistake.

Unless I accept life completely on life’s terms,

I cannot be happy.

I need to concentrate on

what needs to be changed in

me and my attitudes.

 

*So did you find the typo?


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welcome, come as you are

By Julie Smith

This is my week to write a blog…a first for me!  In fact, my license plate holder reads “Too old for MySpace, too young for Medicare”.  Time to step into the new millennium now that it is almost 2011.

It actually wasn’t too hard to think of something to write about…as I trudge up the stairs each day that I work the first thing I see is a simple wooden sign lettered: “Welcome, Come as you are”.

I love it so much because it simply states part of the philosophy of welcoming the youth that come to Cup of Cool Water!  Come as you are.  There is nobody here to tell them, “You must go to school!”, “You must get a job!”, and “You must quit using drugs, go to rehab and get clean!”  No, come as you are.  This is a safe place to just be able to come, have a meal, take a shower, take a nap and know that we welcome and love them for who they are.  Who are we to be telling anybody what they should or shouldn’t be doing?

On the other hand, the “Come as you are” extends to all the staff, volunteers and guests that walk up these stairs.  Come as you are, know that you are loved and have gifts to share with the youth we serve.  To be able to just be present, or listen, bake cookies, fold clothes, drive somebody to get their Washington State ID so they can apply for state-funded services are many of the gifts and talents we can offer.

1 Corinthians 12:4-6
“Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone.” (ESV)

I, for one, know the gifts the kids have offered to me have been a blessing.  Their honesty, courage, resiliency & hope never fail to amaze me!

To you readers I say, “Welcome, Come as you are”.

~Julie Smith

Office Manager

 

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