Staff Meeting Recipe!

From Stephanie Clinton

 

The last time I made this for Staff lunch, it was suggested that this recipe should be shared on our Blog .

 

CASHEW CHICKEN

 

Ingredients

 

1 lb of chicken breast

2 cloves garlic

1 Tblsp. Olive Oil

1 bottle Oyster Sauce

1 small head Cabbage

½ lb cashews

1 bunch green onions

 

Directions:

 

Thinly cut chicken into 2 inch strips.

In a large skillet, heat oil over medium heat, and sauté garlic until just golden. Add chicken and cook 6-10 minutes or until chicken is cooked through. Add cashews, oyster sauce and green onion to chicken. Toss well, cover and reduce heat.

 

Chop head of cabbage. Add cabbage to chicken and toss. Remove from pan and place in serving dish. Serve with your favorite Basmati or Jasmine rice.

 

Serves 4


Indirect Service Volunteers(Our behind the scenes heroes)

From Sarah Hennagin

 

One of the facets of Cup of Cool Water’s ministry that receives a little less attention is the number of volunteers we have who do work “behind the scenes” to help keep our facility clean, organized, and serving kids in the best way we possibly can.  I have the privilege of working with many of these “indirect service” volunteers and finding ways to hook people up with service that interests them and is also of benefit to the ministry.  Indirect service includes anything from one-time youth service groups to long-term regular internships in a variety of different capacities.  Anyone can help in an indirect service capacity, and we are always open to suggestions of new ways people might be able to serve.  Here are a few words from some of our Moody Bible Institute volunteers who just started working regularly with the ministry in the last month.  We appreciate them!

 

Hi, my name is Alex Jensen and I am a student at Moody Bible Institute. I am 22 years old and this is my second year in Moody’s five year long Missionary Aviation Program. A friend of mine told me about Cup of Cool Water and introduced me to her uncle, Mark Terrell, who started the ministry. He told me more about the work they do and told me they needed kids to come down and help out. Hearing about the need for volunteers, and having to satisfy a service requirement for Moody, I decided to get involved. I now come once a week to help out wherever I can doing odd jobs such as cleaning and vacuuming, or helping with the Bike shop. Cup of Cool Water’s training program is coming up in a few weeks and I am excited to complete it so that I can become more involved with the kids that come here to Cup! I’m also really excited to see how Christ will work in this coming year and to see how He will work through this ministry!

 

Hi, my name is Peter Cain and I am 21 yrs old. I am currently a second year student in the aviation program at Moody. I was introduced to Cup of Cool Water a little less than a year ago when Mark Terrell came and spoke at a chapel at Moody. At the time I was not able to volunteer because of prior engagements, but this year I have begun volunteering twice a week helping out in the bike shop and doing other odd jobs like cleaning, organizing, and preparing for drop in. The more I hear about the ministry the more my interest grows in what God is doing through it. I enjoy helping people in whatever way that I can and working indirect service has given me a way to do that. I will take the training class in a couple of weeks that will allow me to do direct service, however I am thankful that I can serve now. I am excited about all the people that have been, are, and will be touched by this ministry and about what all God is and will be doing in my life because of it.

 Click here for more info about Volunteer Training – October 14th and 15th!

If you are interested in finding similar ways to serve at Cup of Cool Water as an individual or with a group, please contact Sarah Hennagin at sarah@cupofcoolwater.org or 747-6686.


Poem from Kathy

From Kathy Burrowes

 

 

This is a poem I wrote and often share with cup kids. so many feel so unworthy and so unloved.  These reminders are crucial and I find they can never hear these words too often!!

 

 

I have value                                       

I was created by God

I AM LOVED…

I am worthy of love

I am forgiven

I am hopeful

I am determined

I am God’s child

I AM LOVED…

I can do it

I need God

I need people

I have God

I have people

I AM LOVED…

I am creative

I am talented

I have gifts

I am awesome

I am gifted

I am worth it

I AM LOVED…

I won’t give in

I won’t give up

I won’t quit

I won’t believe lies

I believe in God

He loves me…

I AM LOVED…

 

by Kathy Burrowes


Fried Cabbage – Another great recipe the staff at Cup get to enjoy!

From Stephanie Clinton

 

 

Fried Cabbage (as a side dish or a main course)

You’ll need:

1 pkg pork bacon OR 1 pkg Andouille Sausage

1 Large Head of Cabbage, cored and chopped
1 green pepper, chopped
1 onion, diced
2 cobs of corn (cut corn off cob)
salt and pepper to taste

In a large frying pan or electric skillet (my fav) fry the bacon and set cooked bacon to the side. In the fat from the bacon, saute the green pepper, onion, and corn for about 5 minutes on medium heat.
Add the cabbage and toss in the pan. Cover and simmer for about 5 minutes stirring once or twice. Uncover, crumple bacon and stir into fried cabbage.  Serve with warm cornbread.

To make this as a main course use Andouille sausage instead of  bacon, following the directions above. Use 2-3 tablespoons of butter tin place of the bacon fat.

This dish is almost as good without the meat, for those who love a hearty veggie dish.


Thoughts from Roy

 

The following is a blog from Roy Larson.  Roy is a longtime supporter and friend of CCW, and these are some things he wanted to share with you all.

 

Quotes, etc. for T-Shirts:

 

To know the faithfulness of God is to know the peace of God.

 

At day’s end I turn all my problems over to God.  He’s going to be up anyway.

 

Talk to God about the lost, then talk to the lost about God

 

Contentment is wanting what we have.

 

We all have 24 hours a day – make yours count.

 

Instead of putting others in their place, try putting yourself in their place.

 

From the seeds of kindness, happiness grows.

 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart.

 

Life is fragile – handle with prayer.

 

Live today as if you will stand before God tomorrow.

 

People who suffer need more than sympathy; they need companionship.

 

 

Roy also wanted to share some health-related information with whoever could benefit from it:

 

Potassium is good for high blood pressure and heart disease.  The following are potassium-rich foods:

 

-Potatoes

-Peaches

-Clams

-Bananas.

 

Also:

-Salmon

-Soybeans

-Avocados

-Walnuts

-Hot peppers

-Apples

-Onions


I feel helpless

From Mark Terrell

It was a Monday night and I was on Outreach. Outreach is when we exit the four walls of our facility and go to where the kids are. We walk around downtown looking for young men and women we know and don’t know who are either homeless or heavily involved in youth street culture.

This particular Monday night there were three of us in our team, and we felt God leading us to go into Riverfront Park. When we arrived, there were some kids there that we knew. We chatted for a while and handed out some sack lunches. There was one young woman who stood out, or more accurately she was laid out. She happened to be drunk and passed out on the grass. Her friends were ready to leave and had a hard time waking her up. They were hitting or kicking her, not hard, in the stomach in an attempt to make her throw up. It didn’t work. So two guys picked her up, one on each side, and tried to make her walk to wherever they were all trying to go. We never saw her open her eyes one time even as they dragged her.

As they left in one direction we left in another. While we walked away we began talking about the situation. The major emotion we were all feeling, and which one person verbalized, was “I feel helpless.”

In a situation like that it seems all we can do is sit/stand, watch, and pray. In fact, it appears to me, that unless we (the church or individually) are not actively solving a problem, then we feel that we are not doing anything. This is especially true when it comes to an individual’s problems.  As a result, we feel “helpless.”

The question for me, then, is why does simply “being with” someone not seem to be enough? Why do we feel “helpless” when we can only “be with” the person praying and there “with” them when they are having a difficult time? Why do we have to solve another person’s problems/issues to feel like we are doing something?

I think it is because we have bought into the lie that God is a magician who waves a magic wand and solves all our problems. We often think that if He doesn’t wave that wand and solve our problems or another person’s issues, then He just is not a loving Creator. Also, since we are made in His image (Genesis 1:27) we end up believing we must do the same, or at least say some magic words to save the person from being in pain or get them out of their painful life situation.

If God is not a magician who solves all my problems at my beck and call, then who is He and what role does He play in my life?  And how does that change my response to the pain of others?


Community

From Mark Terrell

 

Working to share the love and hope of Christ is best done in community. Father Benigno Beltran wrote, “Thomas Merton wrote that theology really happens in relations between people.”[1] The emphasis here is that the Gospel is experienced in and through community. The community becomes “… the sign of the coming kingdom to people searching for God—a place that [models] a ‘way of being’ that [overcomes] divisions, both natural and social…”[2] Community represents the unity that Christ called for in John 17, that all followers of Christ will be one as God the Father and God the Son are one. When this happens, not only will Christians experience Jesus in new ways, but the world will know that God exists and loves them.[3] Being in relationship or community is the way that God chooses to be experienced.

Myers explains the power and difficulties of being in community. Myers writes,

Having been made in the image of the triune God, we are meant to be in loving, self-giving relationships with one another and to be caring stewards, participating in the continuing process of creation. So, first, we need to understand that human beings, as bearers of the image of God, are intentionally placed in a system of relationships: with God, with self, with community, with those perceived as “other,” and with our environment.[4]

 

God created humanity to be in relationship with himself and with everything and everyone around it, but those relationships have gotten distorted. Humanity decided to step out on its own, not wanting to listen to God anymore:

Humankind, man and woman together, decided to disobey God. They acted as if they knew better than God (Gn 3). Being like God was apparently more attractive than listening to God and doing as God asked. The effect of this disobedience ensured that human identity and all dimensions of human relationships would be marred.[5]

 

The dimensions, mentioned here by Myers, go beyond a person’s one-on-one relationships with God and other people to include our political, economical, and religious institutions. The whole community has been affected. It must be concluded that it takes a community, in communion with the Triune God and others human beings, to transform society. Myers writes, “Transformation is the work of a community; it is not served well by lonely ‘cowboys.’ The gospel message is a way of living with Christ and each other that then enables the ministry of word, deed, and sign.”[6] Those living in poverty or who are homeless are in their life situation not solely because they are sinners, but also because all relationships are broken. “Poverty is about relationships that don’t work, that isolate, that abandon or devalue.”[7] These relationships have to be healed for each person, including the systems of the world, if people are to be who God created them to be. This societal transformation can only happen when people step into community with Triune God and each other and work to make society just for all. The best example that humanity has for what community should look like is the Trinity.

The Trinity came to the forefront of my heart and mind when Father Benigno Beltran said, “You in the West are Trinitarian in theory and Unitarian in practice because you highlight one aspect of the Trinity, Father, Son, or Holy Spirit, over the others.”[8] What did Father Ben mean by this statement? He meant that Western Christianity is divided into many denominations, and each denomination highlights one person of the Trinity over the others. For example, Charismatic’s highlight the Holy Spirit; Evangelicals lift up Jesus. This difference causes contempt and disunity. The Trinity is split apart and interacts with the world as individuals instead of as the community that they are.

It wasn’t until the author’s New Testament Class at Bakke Graduate University with Dr. Jeff Kuess that the Trinity became less fuzzy. In the class, I learned of two views of the Trinity: Western and Eastern. The Western view of the Trinity “begins by affirming the unity of God’s being,” yet “is expressed in three harmonious identities.”[9] The west “uses the analogy of the roles often played by a single person.”[10] For example, an adult male can be a son, a husband, and a father. This picture of the Trinity is domineering and fortresslike. It is as if God is moving towards a person to force himself on them and engulf them in a militant fashion. By contrast, the Eastern view begins “by affirming that God exists as three concrete individuals. Yet, insists that the Three are so intimately committed to and connected with one another that they constitute a single essence.”[11] The picture that is often used is that “of the dance.” They are so in love with each other that they forget themselves. Dr. Kuess described the interaction between humanity and God as one where people are invited into the dance with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. When a person enters the dance he is so enveloped by love that he loses himself and becomes who he was created to be. The Eastern description of the Trinity spoke to me; it seems to be how God works with the poor, rather than God pursuing humanity like a bounty hunter searching for a convict who has jumped bail. When the bounty hunter finds the felon, he is harsh and demands that the person obey (Western view). God is much more like a shepherd who stops at nothing to find the lost sheep and when the shepherd finds them he picks them up and carries them back to the rest of the flock (Eastern view). Although there is a determination in the shepherd, there is also a gentleness and love about him when the lost are found. Nowhere in scripture is Jesus harsh with the poor, the weak, children, or the oppressed as the Trinity is depicted in the Western view. What is in scripture, is Jesus being gentle and inviting the poor, the weak, children, and the oppressed to wholeness as the Trinity is depicted in the Eastern view.[12]

 


[1] Benigno P. Beltran SVD, “Prophetic Dialogue with the Poor: Solidarity with God’s People in Smokey Mountain” (lecture, Manila, Philippians October 2004).

[2] The Rutba House, ed., School(S) for Conversion: 12 Marks of a New Monasticism (Eugene, OR: Cascade Books, 2005). 102.

[3] Holy Bible: New Living Translaiton.

[4] Bryant L. Myers, Walking with the Poor: Principles and Practice of Transformational Development (Maryknoll: Orbis Books, 2001; reprint, Third Printing). 26.

[5] Myers, Walking with the Poor, 27.

[6] Myers, Walking with the Poor: Principles and Practice of Transformational Development., 35.

[7] Ibid., 36.

[8] Benigno P. Beltran SVD, “Overture II” (class at Bakke Graduate University, Manila, The Phillipines, October 21–31, 2004).

[9] Jeffry F. Keuss MDiv, PhD, “New Testament” (class at Bakke Graduate University, Seattle, WA, March 7–8, 2008).

[10] Ibid.

[11] Kuess.

[12] Ibid.


Laughter

From Mark Terrell

 

I just returned from an overnight trip hosted by peak 7, an outdoor adventure Christian ministry that shares Jesus through rock climbing, whitewater rafting, and backpack trips. Cup of Cool Water took three young men and two staff for two days of rock climbing and whitewater rafting. The key phrase that kept coming up both days was, “this trip is epic.”

Prior to the trip I kept joking around with the guys that there is three major rules for the trip; 1) no smiling, 2) No laughing, 3) No having fun. Then we would laugh at how silly those rules were. They knew I was joking around. All of us were excited to go. One young man said, as he got in the car, “I was so excited last night I only slept an hour and a half.” 

The first day, besides the long drive to Leavenworth, WA, we rock climbed. The kids felt a great sense of accomplishment from all the hard work

pulling with their arms and pushing with their legs propelling themselves up the rock wall.

 

They were working so hard they even got some war wounds (that is scrapes and bruises. Overall, they surprised themselves with all that they accomplished and were exhausted from working so hard.

After a great meal, wonderful talk about trust and community, a good night sleep for some and a fitful night sleep for others, and a delicious breakfast we were ready to spend a day whitewater rafting.

After getting our wet suits, life jackets, and helmets on and a short safety speech we were ready to tackle the whitewater. After lots of laughter, smiles and paddling hard we finished round one of rafting. As we were loading up the rafts the kids were begging to go again. The peak 7 staffs were up for it and we headed off again.

For round two we started in a different spot, making it a shorter trip. Just after we entered the water the kids were laughing and making jokes and getting so excited anticipating the rough water ahead. It was at this point I started laughing. I couldn’t help myself. I was laughing uncontrollably and for seemingly no reason.  I just couldn’t stop myself.

As I thought about it I was laughing because I was full of joy.  Psalm 126:3 says, “The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.”  In this case the “great things” the Lord has done was to give the kids an experience of happiness and excitement. Seeing the kids so happy and having so much fun was so overwhelming joyful it had to come out. This time it came out in laughter.

Thank you Peak 7 and everybody who gave so that we all could experience the “great things” of God and be “filled with joy.”


Quiche Lorraine with cream cheese

From Sara

 

 

I suggest skipping the bacon and replacing with asparagus!

And making your own crust of course!

 

Quiche Lorraine with cream cheese

 

8 oz. cream cheese

1/2 c. heavy cream

3 egg yolks

1 egg

1/4 tsp. fresh ground pepper

1/4 tsp. salt

6 slices bacon

1 (8 inch) crust (unbaked)

 

Beat cream cheese with next 5 ingredients until smooth blended. If you have a blender, it can be blended on the blend cycle. Cut bacon into 1 inch pieces and cook until lightly brown and almost crisp. Microwave cooking of the bacon takes less time. Arrange the bacon in bottom of pastry lined pan. Pour cheese mixture over bacon. Bake in preheated 400 degrees oven for 20 minutes. Reduce heat to 350 degrees and bake for 10 minutes longer or until puffed and golden brown. Let stand for 2 to 3 minutes before cutting. Makes 4 to 6 servings.

 

 


all the time in the world…

From Sarah

 

 

It’s come to my attention in the past couple days that I am often an incredibly impatient person.  And when I occasionally get over that, God does things I don’t expect.

 

Twice this week, I’ve had the opportunity to hang out in our clothing room with a young lady who wasn’t in a hurry.  Both times, I’ve spent about 45 minutes just sitting, talking, joking, commenting on silly clothing items, and being surprised by the things that can come out of a young woman’s mouth when she doesn’t have her guard up.

 

The first time was with a young lady who is 20 and in her last trimester of pregnancy, and who I’ve known for probably six of the seven years I’ve been at CCW.  She half-joked that she is in her “nesting” phase, and because she’s homeless and sleeping outside, she took out her nesting urges by looking at and re-folding literally every women’s shirt and pair of pants in our clothing room.  Drop-in was slow, so I just sat in the room with my feet up while she “nested” and picked her brain about anything and everything that came to mind.  In the process, she told me about her struggles with forgiveness of a family member who abused her as a child, and about how she believes that “as much as you forgive other people, God will forgive you,” because it’s what the bible says.  She told me about how she wishes she’d never done drugs and how it sometimes scares her to remember that God knows everything about her and she can’t hide from him.  She also told me that she didn’t understand why I wanted to hang out with “all these hoodlums down here,” and that she saw and others view me as an older sister.

 

The second time was with another young lady who is 21 and deals with some mental illness as well as drug addiction.  Taking her to the clothing bank is typically not an experience I look forward to because of her compulsive and borderline kleptomaniac tendencies (and my control issues).  Normally this turns into a painful struggle of willpower and ends with her loud and angry and with me frustrated.  This particular time I decided in advance that I would pick my battles and let her just “do her thing” as much as possible, without being rushed or micromanaged.  What ended up happening was a long, funny, disjointed conversation between the two of us as she stuffed about 20 advertising t-shirts, 8 ugly ball caps, 12 cheap toothbrushes, 16 packets of shampoo, and a whole array of other random items into a giant leather purse that looked like a bowling bag.  I took a really deep breath and held my tongue on any items I knew other kids probably wouldn’t want anyway.  I also tried to avoid asking her too many direct questions about her personal life because I know it’s often overwhelming to her.  Instead, I commented on shirts she found, asked her silly questions about colors she liked or places she wanted to visit, and shared goofy stories about my coworkers.  Amazingly, under these circumstances she started volunteering things far more profound than anything I had asked.  She mentioned how painful it was for her to have her son in someone else’s custody and not to get to see him, and how the fact that she was on unsupervised probation and needed to keep a clean record was difficult because she didn’t like to feel like a “good kid” all the time.  At one point, digging through the shampoo drawer, she stopped and said to me, “Why don’t you call my mom and tell her ‘Jane’s stealing all our shampoo because she’s so miserable that she doesn’t have her kid.  Will you give him back now?’”

 

The funny thing about both of these experiences is how very lazy I felt in both cases….either not doing my job because I’m just sitting while someone else folds clothes, or not doing my job because I just let one girl walk out with 20 t-shirts and I was too tired to have the argument.  And yet, I saw that in my uselessness God can use me.  Maybe there is something about being unproductive and unhurried that makes others feel more comfortable around me.  Whatever it is, it has caused me to be astounded at the depth of thought that can be expressed by a young woman who probably is not frequently asked what she thinks about things.  And it makes me wish that I had started listening sooner.


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